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Issue 4, Friday 8th February 2002
 
 

Greetings Curry Lovers!
We're in a romantic mood this week. This has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that it is Valentine's Day next week, although we did ponder whether Asian Men are less romantic than their non-Asian counterparts (you too can express your views in our poll). This weekend also sees the well-timed Asian Brideshow 2002 at the Cafe Royal in London on Sunday 10th February.

Doing anything special on Thursday 14th Feb? If not, off-screen Bollywood sweethearts, Abhishek Bachchan and Karisma Kapoor are in town to launch their new film 'Haan Maine Bhi Pyar Kiya' (Yes I Too Have Loved) at the Cineworld Multiplex Cinema in Wood Green, North London.

Asian Brideshow - Sunday 10th Feb 2002 Bollywood 'Sweethearts' in London
Asian Bride Show 2002Asian weddings are a costly affair, costing on average between £15,000 and £20,000. The intricacies, rites and rituals of Asian Weddings are also a potential minefield of tradition, one that the Asian Bride Show 2002 hopes to help you navigate. read more read more Abhishek Bachchan and Karisma KapoorAbhishek Bachchan and Karisma Kapoor, Bollywood's off-screen sweethearts, along with Akhshay Kumar, will launch their new blockbuster movie 'Haan Maine Bhi Pyar Kiya' (Yes, I Too Have Loved) on Thursday 14th Feb. read more read more

If you are in a matrimonial frame of mind, then you can read up on a summarised version of 'The Hindu Wedding Ceremony', '10 Interesting Facts about Hindu Weddings' or our vaguely humorous take on modern wedding vows.

 
 
10 "Modern" Wedding Vows for Women 10 "Modern" Wedding Vows for Men
Bride with ball-and-chain thoughts!Have you ever noticed how strange Hindu Wedding vows seem? Take for example "I shall guard your family and home, speaking sweetly to you." Read our list of 10 "Modern" Wedding Vows for women read more read more Bridegroom with ball-and-chain thoughts.Men's wedding vows are equally curious. Take for example "let me be the mind and let you be the speech".* Yeah right! Read our list of 10 "Modern" Wedding Vows for Men. read more read more
 
     
  Entertainment Galore  
 

Those contemplating wedlock will be pleased to hear the Andrew Lloyd Webber's new musical 'Bombay Dreams' will be about the age-old tale of boy meets girl meets mother-in-law set to a musical score by the brilliant A R Rahman. Still you will have to wait for the auspicious month of June for the launch of the musical. Ironically, before that you can see the Pilot Theatre Company's play 'Unsuitable Girls', about Chumpa - a fast-talking girl with a wedding already planned and no bridegroom! Chumpa's rather salacious diary can be read by clicking through to The Pilot Theatre website. More about both plays later.

Thankfully Mira Nair's excellent 'Monsoon Wedding' is still showing in major cinemas throughout the UK as is blockbuster K3G (how cool is that?...at least I didn't have to spell out Kabhi Khushi whatever). There is also no shortage of books on the subject of Marriage - Bali Rai's debut novel (Un)arranged Marriage is a male perspective on the subject. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni's new book 'The Unknown Errors of Our Lives' is a collection of female perspectives.

 
 
The Unknown Errors of Our Lives Traditional Mehndi Designs

The Unknown Errors of Our Lives by Chitra Banerjee DivakaruniChitra Banerjee Divakaruni is indeed the doyenne of fictional Asian marriages. Her book 'The Unknown Errors of Our Lives' is a more mature collection of short stories about Asian marriages both good and bad.
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Traditional Mehndi Designs by Dorine Van den BeukelTraditional Mehndi Designs by Dorine Van den Beukel is a veritable treasure trove of henna designs featuring page after page of the most intricate and ornate patters for hands and feet. read more read more

 
     
  Horoscopes - Love & Marriage and all that Jazz....  
 

Yearly Astrological Predictions for 2002,Even if you don't believe in astrology, contemplating matrimony seems to be the time when nearly everyone wants to consult their own and their partner's star sign. Find out what's in store for you this month with our horoscopes, specially compiled by CyberAstro. read more read more

 
     
 

In our search of all things matrimonial, we came across some excellent jokes on the wordanywhere website, a few of which we've reproduced here:

"Marriage is a 3 ring circus:
Engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffer-ring.

Do you know the punishment for bigamy? Two mothers-in-law.

Just think, if it weren't for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.

Ninety percent of Indian men cheat in marriage. The rest do not marry.

Marriage is not a word...ITS A SENTENCE"

 
 

And on that excellent note, I shall finish my senten.....
Lopa Patel (Editor - redhotcurry.com)

     
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